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Get all dressed up in your best outfits (I am talking suits, tuxes, gowns, prom dresses, all the way!). Head out for a Midnight-1:00am dinner at the local Waffle House or other greasy spoon. Put a song on the Juke Box and order omelets with hash browns. Let the staring begin!
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6 Things Not To Do On A Date.
I have been out on a few dates lately, and while most of them have been with physically beautiful women, I always find myself saying at the end of the night that I will never go out with them again. What does the woman do to make me feel so repulsed that an almost impeccably planned evening could end with me not wanting to see them again?
The Chameleon
The first kind of date which should always send the red flags flapping, is the woman who some guys call "The Chameleon." This is the woman who will change to suit whatever interest you may have. She picks up on the slightest details such as the type of music you like, the kind of movies you like, your favorite extracurricular activities, and incorporates them into her personality. As your night on the town proceeds with the chameleon, she will undoubtedly assume multiple characteristics of your personality to try to further impress you. These girls are flakes, and in the long run, could possibly be very dangerous.
The Obessive Date
Then there is the "Obsessive Date." This is the girl who has been staring at you for the last few months, waiting for you and only you to ask them out, building in their heads what a perfect evening might be with you. The night of the big date comes, you pick her up from her place, and as soon as she enters your car, she falls into a deep stare as you drive down the street. Her eyes have not set on anything other than your profile since you began driving, and you now feel incredibly uncomfortable. The conversation is going well, but at some point at least once, she makes the comment that she has been waiting so long for you to ask her out. If you are interested in the fatal attraction females, then this is the woman for you, but for me...no thanks.
The Insecure Date
Another date I had recently falls under the old favorite, "I'm Insecure, and Need More Positive Reassurance Date." This is a self explanatory type of date, where the woman starts the date off with a comment like "I feel fat," or "My breasts are too small." There is nothing more attractive to me than confidence. A confident, secure lady is apparent across the room, and will get more attention than a woman who is constantly begging for it. Complaining or making comments about your flaws can be a very quick turn off, so my suggestion is, leave it at home when you go out on the first date or two.
Me, Me, Me
Here's one everyone loves, the "I can't talk enough about myself" date.
This woman opens the door when you knock and immediately starts blabbing, about her job, her ambitions, her clothes, her hair, her makeup, her car, her mother, her pet, have you had a chance to even say hello yet? Maybe, but your second word will probably have to wait for a while, possibly even until you say "Good Night. I'll call you". But if you are dumb enough to call again, good luck having anything but a repeat performance.
The Chatter
What about the "Oh wait a minute, I have a call" date. You'll never feel like you are the focus of the girl's attention on this first date. After every bite of food, her cell phone rings and it's another friend asking her this or that and maybe even planning a little event for once your time with her that night is through. Guys should have a three rings and you're out policy, because if she hasn't cut the ringy-thing off by three, she's putting you low on her priority list.
The Snob
Finally, and my most recent date, falls under the "I'm Better Than Everyone Else" date. This kind of date could apply to men as well as women, so both sexes beware. This date will attempt to criticize at least one of your traits during your first dinner, by quoting some inspirational leader they have recently heard at one of their self improvement seminars. They will not accept you for who you are, and while the date might lead to future dates if one does not catch on to this fast enough, the relationship will ultimately end with the person moving on to their next victim, who they feel is an improvement over you.
Every time I go out with the guys, I hear different stories about dates they have been on, and I share my stories with them. Generally those stories end up being exaggerated ten-fold. The bottom line is, if there is someone who you are interested in, you're going to find things that you like, and eventually you are going to find things that you don't like. One of the most important things to remember when you go out with someone new, is rather than immediately slapping a label on a new interest, get to know them first. The first date is always going to be a little awkward, and while you may be "Johnny Cool" on all of your dates, the person you are going out with might not be, and might take a little while before they are comfortable around you. Give the person a chance before you go back to your buddies with a new story.
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